Understanding the Realities of Childhood and Adolescent Depression
By Alan Harper, MA, LLP
Many adults are surprised when told that children and adolescents can and do become clinically depressed. We often think only adults have the type and severity of life stressors that can result in depression. After all, we adults have to deal with careers, financial concerns, marital issues, parenting challenges, tax season, home repairs, health problems, and more. Children and adolescents have little to worry about in their relatively stress-free lives. Children simply have to do their best in their fun classes at school, play with their friends, enjoy all the toys they’ve accumulated, and put up with Mom and Dad when told it’s time to go to bed so they can rest up for another fun-filled, stress-free day.
Adolescent boys and girls have lives filled with Friday night football games, sleepovers at friends’ houses, weekends at the mall, movie dates with their exciting new boyfriend or girlfriend. They enjoy group outings at local fast food restaurants where talk is friendly and no one is teased or ostracized. Life is good as a child and adolescent. School is fun, home is stable, friends are true, and bodies are healthy. Depression can wait until the real stressors of adulthood. Right? Well…not exactly.
As much as we may want the above scenarios to be true, the fact is the time of our lives from childhood through adolescence can be an emotionally tumultuous time. It can be filled with uncertainty, insecurity and confusion caused by difficult peer-relational issues, heart-breaking dating experiences, academic stressors, health problems and conflictual home environments. This is a time of transition from the relative protection of young childhood to the significant challenges of adulthood. The demands placed on children and adolescents by society, parents, peers, and the girls and boys themselves can be staggering.






